Me too!Pies4shaw wrote:Actual LOLs.watt price tully wrote:She just doesn't know how to articulate what she means. If only she went to a separate school so she can truly get the help she needs as her attempts at mainstreaming doesn't seem to have helped her too much.stui magpie wrote:^
She's not the sharpest knife in the drawer.
I don't hate Pauline, and I agree with some of her stuff, (yes David, halal for one!) and some of her other stuff only up to a point.
The reason I felt compelled to comment on this thread at all is the subject, basically, damaged children. As me and others have pointed out, there are a lot of damaged kids out there, in different degrees, for lots of different reasons. I'd like to trust each school to do what's best for both the damaged child, and those fortunate to not be damaged.
The kid in prep that caused so much strife, touched me deeply. I even got hauled into the principles office one day, I thought for a Thankyou since I saved his life - he took off out of class, we had a substitute teacher that day, she had no idea, so I took off after him and grabbed him just before he ran in front of a car. I got told off for touching him! Your not allowed to touch the kids apparently. In grade two he moved to another school, but not before punching two kids in the face, (thankfully he had a bit of a crush on junior, he was always nice to her!) and throwing a brick at the deputy principle, and another through a plate glass window. All day long the teacher had to watch him. He was dangerous. I later heard from a neighbour that he had been found sitting in the middle of the road one day, just waiting to get run over. He was about 6-7 at the time. A product of a failed marriage, he was the pawn in their game. I've often wondered what happened to him. So much anger in such a tiny little body. That poor kid. Do you stick him in reform school? And therefore make him a lifelong member of the 'system' ?
The kid in the wheel chair, and his not quite so badly damaged sister, are still battling on, but the boy especially, is on borrowed time. He was such a delight, happy, gutsy.
I was born dyslexic, left handed, with a heart condition, that medication fixed, but left me with permanent damage to my hearing, which wasn't picked up until I was 16. I just got belted because dad thought I wasn't listening. Since I could hear sound and understand clear speaking people, I thought it was normal. And it is my normal. And once I got a teacher (grade one in a one horse town named cotton end, Bedford, for a time the church was part of our school rooms), her name was mrs Guaghtry, (spelled wrong I'm sure, but that's how you pronounce it) who took the time to help me - I would write in perfect mirror formation apparently! I shot to the top of the class. Was I not worth that time?
Yes as Stui said it has to be a case by case basis, and in my opinion, it's not a point scoring excercise, kids with autism and their broken hearted parents face enough battles as it is. If a child can function in a main stream school with only some disruption to others, that's where they should be.
By the way, a lot of the teachers aids are not helping kids with autism, or any other diagnosis, they just happen to have learning disabilities or behavioural or concentration problems. I'd rather they have an aid than drop ADHD meds. But that's another story! The strap worked too!
Former hyperactive kid who made it through and was worth it. Cheers!