He takes your name!
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- Miss_Lisey_Molloy
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I would have the husband's surname!! I wish i could keep mine, but then i'd look silly, and would hate making my kids have the hyphen thing, or to not have the same last name as them!!!
I absolutely adore my signature!! I dont ever want to change it! Whenever im bored i sign my signature over and over and over and i dont want to get a new one!!! I have Graham Wright's last name too :P But i guess i will change it! Even though i dont want to!
Anyone want my autograph so when i get married it will be famous?
Love always, Alyssa xoxo
I absolutely adore my signature!! I dont ever want to change it! Whenever im bored i sign my signature over and over and over and i dont want to get a new one!!! I have Graham Wright's last name too :P But i guess i will change it! Even though i dont want to!
Anyone want my autograph so when i get married it will be famous?
Love always, Alyssa xoxo
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- MissMagpie_20
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I totally agree Dilly5. I will take my fiance's name because its tradition but its just as plausible for the woman to take her husband's name. I dont have a problem with that at all. I just feel that if youre not prepared to both have the same name, no matter who changes their name, maybe you should reconsider whether or not youre ready for marriage.
And Magpie Marj, i TOTALLY agree with you. As Kath and Kim would say, its nice, its normal.
And Magpie Marj, i TOTALLY agree with you. As Kath and Kim would say, its nice, its normal.
Those with the most invested are the last to surrender!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
- CQ
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its not that much of a big deal u know. some ppl feel confortable enough eith each other without changing their last names. if marraige comes down to a bloody name change then maybe u should reconsider!MissMagpie_20 wrote:I just feel that if youre not prepared to both have the same name, no matter who changes their name, maybe you should reconsider whether or not youre ready for marriage.
- MissMagpie_20
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Thats not the case at all CQ. My point is, having the same name is part of getting married, if youre not comfortable with it, maybe it tells you that youre not ready for the committment of marriage. Its a big tradition and IMO is a big deal. Something Im sure you will recognise when your at that stage of your life.
Those with the most invested are the last to surrender!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
- CQ
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oh yer, and i suppose no sex b4 marraige is also a biggie eh?MissMagpie_20 wrote:Thats not the case at all CQ. My point is, having the same name is part of getting married, if youre not comfortable with it, maybe it tells you that youre not ready for the committment of marriage. Its a big tradition and IMO is a big deal. Something Im sure you will recognise when your at that stage of your life.
um no i dont think i wil be or do recognise it bcos its not important to me.
- MissMagpie_20
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No sex before marriage has nothing to do with anything were talking about Nat I cdunno about others but i certainly dont live by that rule.
I dont suppose it is important to you so its hard for you to undersstand. Ah well.
I dont suppose it is important to you so its hard for you to undersstand. Ah well.
Those with the most invested are the last to surrender!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
- Foreverpies
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- swooper
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I dont know why saying that if 'you are not prepared to take your husbands name' means youre not ready for marriage??? What does a name have to do with it at all? Surely things like honesty, committment, trust,LOVE have a whole lot more to do with whether or not you keep your surname or not? I wouldve thought that is the least important thing to consider when getting married. However, it is a personal choice in the end right? If we had children, I wouldnt have a problem with the child taking the husbands name at all, I think hyphenated names ,by and large dont work.
Im pretty sure Im older than alot of u chicks out there, but I just think its sooooo old fashioned!!! My opinion only guys!
Im pretty sure Im older than alot of u chicks out there, but I just think its sooooo old fashioned!!! My opinion only guys!
- MissMagpie_20
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Im simply stating my opinion too Swooper, i beleive name changing is a big part of it. Sometimes, actually 99% of the time, CQ has big issues with her ability to have a conflicting opinion without becoming quite nasty in the process.
Those with the most invested are the last to surrender!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
So when i'm lying in my bed, thoughts running through my head and i feel that love is dead...
IM LOVING BUCKLEY INSTEAD!
- MissMagpie_20
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