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I wanted to post this article in David's thread about pubic hair but couldn't find it. Here will have to do:

http://www.ladbible.com/news/uk-parents ... c-20190213

People have too much time on their hands. At least it wasn't the full brazillian which has gone out of vogue.
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Bucks5 wrote:I wanted to post this article in David's thread about pubic hair but couldn't find it. Here will have to do:

http://www.ladbible.com/news/uk-parents ... c-20190213

People have too much time on their hands. At least it wasn't the full brazillian which has gone out of vogue.
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It's been a busy week so far for people feeling outraged and offended.

First there was the St Kevins boys and their "offensive" chant that had people tripping over themselves to shriek their outrage to anyone who didn't want to listen.

Today I see a piece about a Pole Dancing Studio in Blackburn getting threats of violence after advertising Pole Dancing classes for children aged 10 to 16.

I read it in the Herald Sun but here's a link to an ABC Radio piece on it.

https://www.abc.net.au/radio/melbourne/ ... s/11638736

So the villagers, suitably armed with burning torches and pitchforks, prepared to storm the studio claiming that it was sexualising children, imagining creepy old men furtively watching 10 year olds in skimpy clothes swinging on a pole and demanding that the building be burned down (or at least the classes be stopped)

Interestingly, many of the comments were of a similar stance which was "If you don't like it, don't send your kid but FFS stop shrieking"
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Hmmm

Well I don’t tend to shriek unless 8m at the footy, the St Kevin boys, I bet their parents are pretty pissed, and the school should be, they were in school uniform. They don’t deserve to be expelled, but certainly, they deserve some punishment, and pole dancing! Talk about look for trouble! It’s a kardashian move! Call it gymnastics on vertical bars! Storm in a padded out tripleD cup.
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stui magpie wrote:It's been a busy week so far for people feeling outraged and offended.

First there was the St Kevins boys and their "offensive" chant that had people tripping over themselves to shriek their outrage to anyone who didn't want to listen.

Today I see a piece about a Pole Dancing Studio in Blackburn getting threats of violence after advertising Pole Dancing classes for children aged 10 to 16.

I read it in the Herald Sun but here's a link to an ABC Radio piece on it.

https://www.abc.net.au/radio/melbourne/ ... s/11638736

So the villagers, suitably armed with burning torches and pitchforks, prepared to storm the studio claiming that it was sexualising children, imagining creepy old men furtively watching 10 year olds in skimpy clothes swinging on a pole and demanding that the building be burned down (or at least the classes be stopped)

Interestingly, many of the comments were of a similar stance which was "If you don't like it, don't send your kid but FFS stop shrieking"
Not sure why you've put offensive in inverted commas, as if it isn't offensive? It is, I saw the whole song. No place for that type of stuff in this day and age.

The pole dancing story reminds me of seeing an article the other day about K-Mart having to pull a Halloween costume off the shelves because of an online petition about it. The costume? A childs wedding dress. The issue the permanently offended had? It promoted child brides. FFS. Witches and zombies and vampires are all ok but a kid pretending to get married? Outrageous :roll: I reckon I had about 50 pretend weddings when I was a kid.
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I put offensive in inverted commas because how offensive it is, is subjective.

In this day and age it was pretty stupid to do it in school uniform on public transport but I don't think it deserved the angst it got.

For reference, the Aruba chant has been around for decades at least so these numbats didn't invent it, and it's made the news before.

When looking it up the other day I found this article about another time it got media attention, and a self described feminist wrote an article describing how her and her girlfriends sang a version about Men at Uni

https://www.mamamia.com.au/unsw-chant/
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stui magpie wrote:I put offensive in inverted commas because how offensive it is, is subjective.

In this day and age it was pretty stupid to do it in school uniform on public transport but I don't think it deserved the angst it got.

For reference, the Aruba chant has been around for decades at least so these numbats didn't invent it, and it's made the news before.

When looking it up the other day I found this article about another time it got media attention, and a self described feminist wrote an article describing how her and her girlfriends sang a version about Men at Uni

https://www.mamamia.com.au/unsw-chant/
As if that somehow makes it ok? So, you'd be fine with it being sung about your daughter?
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My daughter isn't some thin skinned petal, she's more than capable of looking after herself.

She's been putting down dickheads, both verbally and physically, for years. I have no need to get offended on her behalf.
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Wow, I'd call that way overthinking the pole dancing. :shock:
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Just remembered about that putrid “jokes” thread in the bored board (that was deleted, thankfully). Of course the author of that would find nothing offensive in the chant.
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Some people can find offense in almost anything, they're wired that way, and social media lets them share that. If you think it's offensive, good for you. I thought it was crass and stupid, pretty much what you'd expect from high school kids.
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stui magpie wrote:Wow, I'd call that way overthinking the pole dancing. :shock:
I feel like every little phenomenon represents something bigger, or at least has the capacity to reflect broader social trends. An exercise club presumably run by normies just looking to make a buck (i.e. not shock artists, sexual deviants or political subversives) thought this was a completely acceptable and uncontroversial thing to offer, whereas a lot of equally normal people who saw the ad were horrified. Neither of those views emerged from nowhere, and both are quite understandable. That’s an interesting disconnect that merits exploration, I think.
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It's a disconnect that happens all the time. In that example the polar extremes were on one hand you had parents who signed their kids up for the classes and the other hand parents who rang the place with threats.

Very few things are universally agreed, the majority are subjective based on individual perception. That's partly why I find the notion of people getting outraged and offended so badly, quite humorous.
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