David wrote:What'sinaname wrote:There are always options. There are plenty of house and land packages in the West, North and SE of Melbourne for less than $500k.
If you (not you in particular but millennials) want to whinge that you can't afford your first house in Hawthorn, Brunswick, Elwood or Newport then it'll fall on deaf ears.
No doubt compromising on location, size, quality of dwelling and so on helps bring the price tag down. But $500k is still a lot, and many of us don’t have anything like a spare $50k in the bank for the deposit. Some millennials have moderately well-off parents who’ll give or loan them some of that, but we’re not all that lucky.
The maths don’t lie: back in the 1980s, you could get a decent family home with a backyard in the city for five figures. Every time that price rises in real terms, more of the kind of people who could afford to buy a home in the past start to miss out. That’s where we are now.
When I started work my first year apprentice wage was $88 a week take home! My kids both started on $70k plus a year, and even their friends without degrees are paid a lot better than we were, everything has gone up, income and outgoings.
Choices and priorities. My generation saved fora deposit before travelling the world or having kids, we had secondhand furniture and a holiday on the Gold Coast every couple of years. Our first houses were nothing special. And at least 1 parent worked 2 jobs. Our first rental was $52k and it was terrifying! But so worth the risk.
Both my kids had jobs during uni, and had almost a deposit saved when they got their degrees. The eldest saved up over $120k for her $570k basic spec home in Truganina. Not the best location, but she’s in the best part of Trug and it’s hers. We contributed zip, not even a loan. We did do up her yard for her and buy some 2nd hand furniture for her. Eventually, we will help out. But she has done it all on her own. Junior has a decent deposit after 14 months full time, we will start looking in the next 12 months. Yes they lived at home, because our priorities meant we could afford to have them, and they didn’t drive us to kick them out!
Again, choices and priorities, as WIAN said, in a nutshell.
Your road is your choice, not right or wrong, but don’t bitch about hardships and expect handouts all the time. Still cheap housing or units in truganina, and my eldest used to commute every day to the city , til she switched jobs and now works from home, so that’s no excuse. You live inner city, how much rent are you throwing away for location? You have said you could get a better paid job but you love your job, that’s a choice right there, and it’s fine to prioritise satisfaction over dollars, but it’s still your choice.
One thing I did teach my kids: do what you have to do before what you want to do. Then enjoy the reward.