Sex before marriage!
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Sex before marriage!
Well its dead in here and we need some controversy!!!
Some do, Some dont!
Lets find out!
If Yes- Why?? Its in your religion! U just wanna wait, Too scared to get naked...???
If No- Why not?
Some do, Some dont!
Lets find out!
If Yes- Why?? Its in your religion! U just wanna wait, Too scared to get naked...???
If No- Why not?
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I think there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage, your virginity should mean something to you of course. But I don't see why you should hold onto it forever in the hope of being married.
Firstly, how can you say you will ever marry? Do you want to be a 70 year old virgin and wonder what could have been if you experienced it? And Secondly, it would take a very strong man to share that view and hold an adult long term relationship without it.
My virginity did mean something to me and I didn't go out and lose it in a hurry. I'm happy to say it truly meant something to me.
I respect the opinions of people who have chosen to wait that long, just it annoys me a little when they try to view themselves as 'better' or feel they have more class than someone who does have sex.
Firstly, how can you say you will ever marry? Do you want to be a 70 year old virgin and wonder what could have been if you experienced it? And Secondly, it would take a very strong man to share that view and hold an adult long term relationship without it.
My virginity did mean something to me and I didn't go out and lose it in a hurry. I'm happy to say it truly meant something to me.
I respect the opinions of people who have chosen to wait that long, just it annoys me a little when they try to view themselves as 'better' or feel they have more class than someone who does have sex.
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Nothing wrong with Sex before marriage...
My virginity kinda meant something to me i guess, but not heaps..I know that sounds bad, but it wasnt something that i was all nervous about losing and stuff!!!!!!
Although i regret the person i first did it with..he told like everyone and the whole of year 10 last year new bout it, n all the guys thort that i was easy for a while..then i proved that i wasnt when i rejected at least 5 guys at partys... i hate how if u do choose to have sex, people automatically think your "easy" or a "slut"..its really stupid!!!!
But i respect peoples decisions wen they decide to wait until they marry!! It would be hard i suppose.lol....
My virginity kinda meant something to me i guess, but not heaps..I know that sounds bad, but it wasnt something that i was all nervous about losing and stuff!!!!!!
Although i regret the person i first did it with..he told like everyone and the whole of year 10 last year new bout it, n all the guys thort that i was easy for a while..then i proved that i wasnt when i rejected at least 5 guys at partys... i hate how if u do choose to have sex, people automatically think your "easy" or a "slut"..its really stupid!!!!
But i respect peoples decisions wen they decide to wait until they marry!! It would be hard i suppose.lol....
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I don't want to wait till I am married, coz that could be forever, and I don't believe in that.
However, I can't pick an option, because I haven't had sex, so I don't know if I love it or like it! I just picked love it coz I love everything ;)
Love always, Alyssa xoxo
However, I can't pick an option, because I haven't had sex, so I don't know if I love it or like it! I just picked love it coz I love everything ;)
Love always, Alyssa xoxo
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Personally, I think if someone wants to wait to they are married, good one them! I just dont like it like Rach said that because you might have lost your virginity at a young age you get called names! That aint cricket is it now!
I lost mine when I was in year10! Was with him for a while, now I dont even talk to him, just the odd nodd of the head to acknowledge he's there!
If you waited tho, what would you do if he was an absolute Gumby when it came to the bedroom, uncoordinated and lasted as long as it takes to cook a pkt of Maggi noodles! Dont think the marriage would last very long, sex is a major part of a relationship (along with other things of course) I dont think love is enough!!! Wouldnt it be the most EXPENSIVE ONE NIGHT STAND in history or at least the most expensive dud root ever!
I lost mine when I was in year10! Was with him for a while, now I dont even talk to him, just the odd nodd of the head to acknowledge he's there!
If you waited tho, what would you do if he was an absolute Gumby when it came to the bedroom, uncoordinated and lasted as long as it takes to cook a pkt of Maggi noodles! Dont think the marriage would last very long, sex is a major part of a relationship (along with other things of course) I dont think love is enough!!! Wouldnt it be the most EXPENSIVE ONE NIGHT STAND in history or at least the most expensive dud root ever!
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I don't think sex before marriage is a big issue.
I haven't done it yet though. I'm 16 (year 10) and although I'm not waiting for marriage or anything I don't think I'm going to do it for awhile. I still think I'm too young and not ready for it yet.
I think I'd rather not be a virgin on my wedding night though. I think it'd make it more stressful and plus it probably wouldn't feel that great, it'd just hurt.
I haven't done it yet though. I'm 16 (year 10) and although I'm not waiting for marriage or anything I don't think I'm going to do it for awhile. I still think I'm too young and not ready for it yet.
I think I'd rather not be a virgin on my wedding night though. I think it'd make it more stressful and plus it probably wouldn't feel that great, it'd just hurt.
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I also don't think its a big issue personally, but that is just me. My virginity didn't mean much at the time, but I was young and silly, so my advice is just wait until you are READY.
If someone wants to wait until marriage then that is their choice, I think there are more important sex issues out there to worry about, like STD's etc. Each to their own I say.
Han - if you want some controversy, start a "How did you lose your virginity" thread, lol
If someone wants to wait until marriage then that is their choice, I think there are more important sex issues out there to worry about, like STD's etc. Each to their own I say.
Han - if you want some controversy, start a "How did you lose your virginity" thread, lol
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