Would you ever

[licca's_chick_18]

Hey Girls,

Just wondering if any of you with boyfriends would let your man go to strip clubs with their mates when you know there is a good chance of him paying for a dance.

Just a question that I have been asked.

My man knows that he is not allowed at those clubs and he said he doesnt mind.

Whats your thoughts girls how does your man feel about your feelings on this subject.

[licca's_chick_18]

Sorry I posted this twice oops

[bindy]

My man doesn't seem too interested in going, probably cause he is getting some action at home!

Think strip clubs attract more the yobbo, desperate types.

[Proud Pies]

if you trust your man, what do you have to worry about?

why not make it a fun night out for everyone and go along with him? You'd be surprised at how many females go to these with their menfolk.

[foxychick]

Strip joints are probabbly much better than clubbing. Most strip joints have a no touch policy so u shouldn't worry too much. A lot of the girls in there wear clothes, only those who are doing a show might have a few clothes off ... u see more at a beach!! it's not like he'd do anything or go home with the girl so the strip joint is okay.

[Presti35]

You could always piss him right off by going to the male strippers. Then tell him all about it.

[tazzies_girl]

Yeh ideally, u 'd be confident enough to let ure guy go

[Hanskies]

Or you could go with him, learn a few moves

[Nutmeg]

i wouldn't mind if it was a bucks night or something (like a one off or special occasion), but if it was a really regular thing, i don't think i would be happy with it.

[tazzies_girl]

It wouldnt be an every weekend occasion, but i'd let them go once or twice.

[leonmagic]

just make sure you have more class than the stripper and he'll be more attracted to you. shouldnt be too hard id imagine.


yeah woo chicks channel.

[_luvlicca_]

i cant see a problem with it unless you make it one.

[melissa]

Never had a problem with it, my man gives me enough attention. If he was going every week instead of the odd bucks night then I think there would be a problem. I think he thinks they're a bit tacky, though, those kinds of shows.

[jo_loves_steven]

I think with things like that it all comes down to how strong your relationship is and how much you trust your boyfriend... but I still think a strip club is the last place he is actually likely to cheat, why would he pay money for a girl when he has one at home.

There are plenty worse places you can let a guy go to, but if the guy is a cheater he will find anyway he can to do it, my ex lived interstate and when I was there visiting him for my birthday he was talking to other girls on the internet right in front of me.. but I never trusted him and I always thought he was cheating.. so it all just comes down to if things are meant to be then you can trust your man to go anywhere.

[melissa]

Yeah very true, Jo. My first bf was like your ex, he would chat chicks up right in front of me or tell me about it if someone had tried to chat him up. It was almost as if he was trying to prove other girls were attracted to him, it was pathetic. My current bf is terrific, he's never flirted in front of me or tortured me with the details. He rarely says if he thinks a girl's attractive. Not that I would mind, but i think I got a rare one who cares about my feelings. I think if he was invited to a strip club he'd go if it was a bucks night but he's probably ask if i minded. Which I wouldn't.