What do you look for most?
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- David
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What do you look for most?
hey well this is a bit weird....
but I was wondering what girls consider to be the number one thing they look for in guys?
It's always interesting trying to work out how the opposite sex thinks, I don't doubt that us males are equally confusing at times.
Appreciate any replies, I'm already appreciating the novelty of posting in the chicks channel (I'm such a rebel lol )
but I was wondering what girls consider to be the number one thing they look for in guys?
It's always interesting trying to work out how the opposite sex thinks, I don't doubt that us males are equally confusing at times.
Appreciate any replies, I'm already appreciating the novelty of posting in the chicks channel (I'm such a rebel lol )
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I dunno... its hard this question!
I think you have to have a common interest, and have to feel comfortable with them, to take it further. Like, be able to be open with one another etc...
Don't try and get in my pants when u first meet me sorta thing, but don't give off the impression that you could only be a friend
haha sorry its hard to say
I think you have to have a common interest, and have to feel comfortable with them, to take it further. Like, be able to be open with one another etc...
Don't try and get in my pants when u first meet me sorta thing, but don't give off the impression that you could only be a friend
haha sorry its hard to say
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Re: What do you look for most?
hahaha good question for them to answer. besides wot u doing in here. OH crap wot am i doing here. OH wait no 1 around so im safe. besides the answer will start with L....!David from Canberra wrote:hey well this is a bit weird....
but I was wondering what girls consider to be the number one thing they look for in guys?
It's always interesting trying to work out how the opposite sex thinks, I don't doubt that us males are equally confusing at times.
Appreciate any replies, I'm already appreciating the novelty of posting in the chicks channel (I'm such a rebel lol )
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That's the thing... certainly I've heard that confidence is a big thing that girls look for. It sort of pisses me off a bit though when it seems like all the footy player-types get girls so easily, and I wonder why it is. Obviously different girls are going to have different opinions, and probably the kind of girl I'd go for wouldn't be interested in that type of guy anyway. Yeah what are we doing here Mike, good question
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what do you look for most?
Dave from Canberra, it really depends on the guy, i couldn't care less if he's a football player or not. My bf is not a footy player. But he's got a good sense of humour and is easy to be around. I think that is the most important thing.
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I like a guy who can string a sentence together (in proper english) without a uuh umm in between every third word.
I like a guy who is confident, cocky is hot, but arrogance is not!
Someone that knows what they want in life, not just plodding along!
Nice shoulders are a plus!
a Guy that doesnt change his personality when hes around me alone, and when hes with me and his mates are around **Thats the worst when they become pricks coz their mates are around**
I like a guy who is confident, cocky is hot, but arrogance is not!
Someone that knows what they want in life, not just plodding along!
Nice shoulders are a plus!
a Guy that doesnt change his personality when hes around me alone, and when hes with me and his mates are around **Thats the worst when they become pricks coz their mates are around**
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Whats the difference between cocky and arrogant Han?
"I like a guy who can string a sentence together (in proper english) without a uuh umm in between every third word. "
Perfect way to put it. He doesnt have to think he's great, I just want him comfortable with himself.
Footy guys get girls coz they act like they're top shit and girls start to believe it. And with some girls its just a "try to get the hottest but best player" competition.
"I like a guy who can string a sentence together (in proper english) without a uuh umm in between every third word. "
Perfect way to put it. He doesnt have to think he's great, I just want him comfortable with himself.
Footy guys get girls coz they act like they're top shit and girls start to believe it. And with some girls its just a "try to get the hottest but best player" competition.
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Yeah it is pretty pathetic. Like a part of the Shane Crawford doco where some of the girls were all over him just cos he's a footy player. Albeit not a bad looking one and the former captain, but honestly, he has a partner (or did aat the time) and some of those girls acted as though that didn't matter, like they'd screw him anyway. Pathetic.
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Difference between cocky and arrogant... hard to put into words
Cocky I guess is hot in the way a guy carries himself- self assured, knows who he is, know where hes going, knows to treat people equally and fairly. Knows hes good (as in good looking or got something special going on about him, eg job) without flaunting it.
Arrogance is well, we've all met at least 10 guys that think all girls fall at their feet and that they are gods gift, when in fact they really are shallow, pathetic and have nothing to offer, cant string a sentence together beyond anything at prep level. Kinda someone like my ex (who plays for north Ballarat) and well thinks all girls fall at his feet, when infact he was only ressies captain last year because he isnt good enough to get into VFL senior squad, and other than that he digs holes for a living!(he a landscaper) (not that anything is wrong with that, but dont try and compare it so a brain surgeon or anything like that, even a REAL trade, like carpenter or a plumber)
Cocky I guess is hot in the way a guy carries himself- self assured, knows who he is, know where hes going, knows to treat people equally and fairly. Knows hes good (as in good looking or got something special going on about him, eg job) without flaunting it.
Arrogance is well, we've all met at least 10 guys that think all girls fall at their feet and that they are gods gift, when in fact they really are shallow, pathetic and have nothing to offer, cant string a sentence together beyond anything at prep level. Kinda someone like my ex (who plays for north Ballarat) and well thinks all girls fall at his feet, when infact he was only ressies captain last year because he isnt good enough to get into VFL senior squad, and other than that he digs holes for a living!(he a landscaper) (not that anything is wrong with that, but dont try and compare it so a brain surgeon or anything like that, even a REAL trade, like carpenter or a plumber)
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What do you look for most?
No I reclon AFL players tend to go out with girls who know nothing about football which kind of irks me because those of us who do aren't dogs! Or dykes with too much testosterone! We're an attractive bunch, what's wrong with these guys? We could at least carry on a decent conversation with them. I don't talk about football all the time, either. I think that might be why they go for those girls. Or the fact that they don't know who the player is so they don't act awe-struck like some little groupies do. But do any of the guys actually have anything intelligent to say, themselvees? I know Bucks is pretty smart, but if anyone's talked to a player that has something to say, let me know!
Congrats Bucks, on a great return! Bring on the Crows!