David wrote:sherrife wrote:Having a bullsh!t sense of morality that results in me turning down two beautiful girls in 2 weeks because we don't connect at all in other ways... This is after being totally single for a fkn year for similar reasons.
argh!
Omar, I don't know what these girls are like or anything, but take it from me:
I honestly didn't think I'd 'connect' with Tildy at first, so to speak... but we most certainly have and I haven't regretted a minute of it.
Is there no chance at all they could be right for you?
Depends what you mean by right for me. Could i have a great time with them, sure. Could we have decent conversations, yes. Could we have great sex, definitely. But...
Would I learn more about the world through our conversations, probably not. Would they challenge me to be more consequent - to live my ideals, probably not. Would they inspire growth - intellectually, politically, emotionally, probably not. All this is based not on hasty judgements but on being friends with them for a while.
I've already had a great relationship where the first things were achieved, and I found it wasn't enough... I'm looking for at least some of the second list of things now. Know what I mean?
I would be ashamed to admit that I had risen from the ranks. When I rise it will be with the ranks... - Eugene Debs