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Kingswood · Post by **Kingswood** » Sat Aug 16, 2008 9:38 pm

not an easy thing to do, unless you actually stop thinking about him. otherwise you'll be constantly wondering whether he is missing you or thinking about you

yadster#13 · Post by **yadster#13** » Sun Aug 17, 2008 11:45 am

thats the way girl good luck with it

Who'sOnO'Bree · Post by **Who'sOnO'Bree** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:27 pm

I feel for you JJJ, I've been there - not for 6 years, but long enough. Be strong and muster up all the Will Power you've got. Mr Right will sweep you off your feet one day.

mel_kay39 · Post by **mel_kay39** » Tue Aug 19, 2008 8:48 pm

yeah, this one's kind of a hard one.
On the one hand, he seems like he's putting in some effort calling you four times and remembering to buy you chocolates, and on the other, he's been stringing you along for six years. Sounds like it's time to throw down the gauntlet, so to speak, stop playing games and just ask him straight out, "do you like me?" or "where is this going?" because if you don't, I don't see things changing in your favour. If he says no, he's not ready to commit but he likes your company, then there's your answer. He's not gonna be boyfriend material.

JacJacJacqui · Post by **JacJacJacqui** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:54 am

Ok so I need advice ASAP. I got an email from said guy this morning saying "Ok it's obvious you've cracked it with me..? Take it you don't want the chocolates either.."

What should I say? My mum said that I should say "You know where I live if you want to see me". What do you think?

luvdids · Post by **luvdids** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:56 am

Why don't you just say you haven't cracked it with him, you've just decided you're sick of being strung along, it's obviously going nowhere and you have better things to spend your time and energy on. Tell him he's a good friend blah blah blah, haven't cracked it, just woken up a bit.
Then give him my address for the chocolates

JacJacJacqui · Post by **JacJacJacqui** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:58 am

luvdids wrote:Why don't you just say you haven't cracked it with him, you've just decided you're sick of being strung along, it's obviously going nowhere and you have better things to spend your time and energy on. Tell him he's a good friend blah blah blah, haven't cracked it, just woken up a bit.
Then give him my address for the chocolates

Actually that sounds like the perfect thing to say, thanks!

luvdids · Post by **luvdids** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:20 am

No problems. Might have mentioned once before that I am..... ahem... 'experienced'??!! lol. Been there before, it's hard but it's gotta be done.
I'll forward my address for the chocolates!!

John Wren · Post by **John Wren** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:41 pm

JacJacJacqui wrote:Ok so I need advice ASAP. I got an email from said guy this morning saying "Ok it's obvious you've cracked it with me..? Take it you don't want the chocolates either.."

What should I say? My mum said that I should say "You know where I live if you want to see me". What do you think?

turn it around and ask why he thinks that.

leonmagic · Post by **leonmagic** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:55 pm

if you keep putting out why would he change?

JacJacJacqui · Post by **JacJacJacqui** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:22 pm

^^Obviously.. Who said I put out? That stopped a long time ago.. Durr..

JacJacJacqui · Post by **JacJacJacqui** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:12 pm

DONE AND DUSTED

John Wren · Post by **John Wren** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:15 pm

so what happened to the chocs?

CarringbushCigar · Post by **CarringbushCigar** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:19 pm

Im free for dinner and always have chocolates at my place

JacJacJacqui · Post by **JacJacJacqui** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:24 pm

jmcp wrote:so what happened to the chocs?

Dunno.. He can give them to the chick he was all over at his party for all I care..

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