think positive wrote:shes got her head screwed on right, she will be fine papa bear!
um, when did she switch sides??
Yeah, that's what I keep telling myself.
The switching sides is interesting. She told me Xmas eve she was sort of seeing someone. I asked if it was (X bloke) and she hesitated for a second and said it's not a bloke. I digested that for about 5 seconds and just said "whatever makes you happy" and I meant it.
I'm not sure she's fully switched sides and I don't think she is either. I asked her a while back if this means she was done with blokes and all she said was "I don't know", so I'll put that down to personality dependant. I'm not really fussed either way, whatever works for her.
the reason I say "sort of" in a relationship is because that's how she refers to it. lala (not her real name) is supposed to be staying in Europe and getting work (despite not actually getting her working visa, having saved any money or being organised in any way) and squirt has always planned to come back.
I can see some very tense moments in their future in the next few months, I did caution squirt last night that no matter how much Lala irritates her, hitting her on the head with a brick is not a good idea, especially in a foreign country.
I quite like lala, she's been over for dinner several times on Sunday's and she's fun. I can just see trying to travel with her for 3 months is a potential nightmare. You'd love her but she would do your head in at the same time.
Every dead body on Mt Everest was once a highly motivated person, so maybe just calm the **** down.