agree with all of that.Pebbles Rocks wrote:I cannot imagine what it would be like to be transgender, have dwarfism, have autism, suffered abuse etc either. Emotional damage occurs in many sphere's of life as we should not necessarily accept that someone is entitled to react in whatever way they wish just because they are victims.WhyPhilWhy? wrote:If I may, that is a very poor analogy. He is not white and bullying is not anything like systemic racism.Pebbles Rocks wrote:Lets imagine for a moment he was white and he was bullied terribly. Would you take a different view on how has has approached this issue?
Not any of us that are not black can hope to imagine what its like to be black and discriminated against for that reason alone.
Heritier is a victim. I also happen to disagree with his decision making. That does not make me racist or unsympathetic to his experiences.
i just dont get why people cant just be more tolerant of each others differences.
for this one, since there are 2 other explayers also involved, and other players confirmed what happened, to get past this i reckon the club needs to arrange a sit down, not an open forum, but a sit down with lawyers. hopefully payouts wont be necessary, but Heritier feels he needs closure, and unitl he gets it, this is not going away. quite frankly this needs to be dealt with.
as for bullying not being like systamatic racism, well bullying doesnt start at birth and continue forever, unless you happen to be born into one of those families you seen on the midday movie that make my dad look halfway human. I cant imagine having to set myself everytime i walk out my front door just because my skin is a darker colour. second guessing every comment made to you. how painful that must be.